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I have started having sex with a fat girl who I don't find all that attractive in hopes that that will alleviate some of my neediness. Actually I think it is helping some, as the day after having sex with her last week someone commented on how calm I seemed. So perhaps that is the best strategy, coupled with 'fake it til you make it'. Are there any other strategies?

April 14, 2010 12:11:00 AM EST Dave said... raine,

“no, offense but if the "anonymous" commenter has to "hide" his obsession with sex, that's why he isn't getting laid”

  • there are hardly any implications that anon has an obsession with sex
  • he is not trying to “hide” his apparent obsession. he is just looking for techniques to ultimately become more patient. techniques: stupid, but typical PUA mentality
  • “hiding” intentions to fuck, or even “hiding” an obsession with sex, has nothing to do with anything; it is about being strong enough to not be controlled by the obsession, and not make those intentions known in a way that applies unecessary pressure onto the woman. a guy can still have the intentions. that is what a seducer is.

“that is what I meant in my comment to "anonymous" about how just "pretending to not want sex" is not going to cut it”

  • you should not have cited “pretending to not want sex”. anon did not state that, or imply that.
  • sure, i see why anon’s comment (unintentionally) pushed buttons, but i believe he was just searching for an easy formula to put a hold on neediness, which i believe, he thinks will be a cure for impatience and neediness(which it really is not, as i explained in my original comment)
  • in a way, i see where anon was coming from; fucking below average looking women can possibly put a hold on neediness (in a sense that it is better than not fucking any women) but of course, it will not result in acquiring the patience Nova posted about, and will not cure an obsession with sex. however, we are not certain that he even has an obsession with sex.

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